Knowing if your friend is ABDL shouldn't have any bearing on your relationship's quality; if they feel comfortable in themselves, they will tell you; or maybe they won't. A typical follow-up question to ask is, "If ABDL is such a big part of their life, will they ever tell me (their best friend) regression or diapers is something they enjoy?"

The real question is, "why do you want to know?" or, "Are you interested and curious about the practice of ageplay?" Many people find their love of ageplay very young or in their early twenties due to many factors. Knowing about the ABDL tendencies of your best friend has nothing to do with whether they trust you. The beautiful part about relationships is that long-lasting relationships are built over time through the smallest of moments. If you happen to be close to an ABDL, they will eventually tell you if they feel safe, and your trust is unwavering over a long period. Alone in a stall, I inspected my wet pullup. I was feeling a strange sense of pride. I just peed myself, in a diaper, in front of a crowd, to the point where it leaked, and nothing bad had happened! I pulled on a fresh pullup, disposed of the wet one appropriately, and headed out for lunch. I ate a filling meal at an Asian place in the food court, followed up by treating myself to a soft pretzel. I felt a small amount of pressure in my bowels, but it would be fine. Like I said, I really wanted to avoid messing myself in public. I'd either poop at home or, if it was more urgent, use the toilet. I considered messing myself in a stall where nobody could see me and I could change at my leisure, but even that felt like pushing it (pun somewhat intended.) As most of the ABDL community keep their interest in adult diapers private, it isn’t clear exactly what drew them to this interest in the first place. It seems that some people are introduced to wearing adult diapers due to incontinence or other medical issues, and then later become more comfortable wearing them. Purposefully not wear a diaper and wet my pants before I enter the store, then walk around the store looking at different brands of diapers My Daddy and I went to Ikea today to get some furniture and other home decor. Before we left he asked if I wanted to wear my diaper, in the past I’ve always said no, but today I said yes. He diapered me up and I squeezed into my jeans, threw on a hoodie and out we went.If you liked this advice and would like more access to my advice as well as my ABDL hypnosis: Become a Patron! On my Hypno Mommy Patreon I post 1-2 ABDL Hypnosis Mp3 recordings each month along with advice and discussion on the ABDL lifestyle. I was walking to get the bus, a gust of wind threw my skirt up and showed like 15 people my diaper. (I dont know how many knew what it was, but i felt like crying) As the saying goes with the media, "There is no news like bad news." For this reason, a large amount of the public is misinformed about ABDL and ageplay as a community.

Many ABDLs go through a majority of their life without telling anyone they are ABDL. It hasn't been until the availability of information through the internet that more ABDLs connect on a large scale and find enough support to be more open about their ageplay tendencies. Is someone I know and love ABDL? In many cases, it is not safe for ABDLs to tell others as many parents or friends can see this as something that needs therapy even though the tendencies are healthy. Misunderstanding can lead to fear and many hurtful assumptions. It is for this reason many ABDL's keep their preferences safe within their own space. Chances are you know an ABDL. :D Others enjoy the feeling of adult diapers but have no medical need for them. There are various psychological theories as to why this is, including imprinting and James Money’s lovemap theory. Even so, there isn’t much research into the area. Where do ABDLs wear adult diapers? On the way home I wound up wetting again. I was still reliving my messing accident and didn't notice until I went to pull my diaper down and hop in the shower. Besides cleaning my body, the hot shower also cleared my head of the fearful fluttering mess it had become. I got out of the shower feeling a mix of pride, shame, and arousal. I put on my favorite lacy panties and a comfy tube bra and crawled into bed, where I fell asleep after a very fulfilling masturbation session.

When i was changing my diaper, using a disabled restroom (which was also mixed with the baby chaning area). So while in the middle of cleaning my mess, this older women walked in, seen me changing my diaper and just apoligised and left, so i finished changing and left, and as i did i heard the women talking to one of her freinds as i was leaving. So ye that was akward. I arrived at the mall and walked for a bit, sipping my water bottle. I stopped in a few stores, looked around a bit, bought some new panties from aerie and Victoria's Secret. I was kind of forgetting I had a pullup on. I had a slight need for the bathroom, but it wasn't anywhere near urgent yet. The primary reason for this next-level care is because ABDLs long-for and thrive for "care" themselves. The most significant advantage of ageplay towards relationships is that the practice of regression educates and enhances knowledge of nurturing and caregiving. This knowledge, which stands outside of judgment, can significantly enrich the ABDL's emotional connection and support within relationships (interpersonal or professional). How would I let my closest friend know I support them as an ABDL? Here is the situation: I am leaving on a 10 hour road trip this upcoming weekend. For the first time, it’ll be just me. No girlfriend, no family, nothing. Just me and the car. When the girlfriend comes along, I always wear a diaper but that’s pretty much for the convenience of the road trips since I always have to stop. But this time, it’s just me and I sorta want to take advantage of this. You see, I don’t wear in public because I’m afraid of being outed in hometown. I worry about people I know, I worry about people seeing my face. But right in the middle of the road trip, there’s a place where we usually stop that’s heavily populated. It’s a good place to refuel, get some grub and hit the road again. Not to mention wearing a ball cap and a mask these days, no one could take a pic of you and know who you are. ABDLs tend to have a higher-quality relationship because ABDLs have a heightened innate understanding of emotional needs towards each other.